Coaching
Intentional dating coaching for professionals
Stop leaving it to chance
You plan your career, your money and your fitness. Coaching brings that same intention to your love life. We work the Intentional Dating Blueprint together, in real life, while you are actually dating, so the year ahead looks nothing like the last one.
The program
Four stages, one plan
Every program follows the same arc as the book, adapted to where you are starting from.
Prepare
- Honest readiness, without waiting to be perfect
- Self worth work that holds under pressure
- Standards, not fantasies: writing your dating brief
Expand and signal
- Building offline opportunity into an ordinary week
- Asking your network well, without feeling desperate
- Meet cutes on purpose
Engage and discern
- Texting without losing the plot
- First dates that actually tell you something
- Green, amber, red: building or bowing out
Decide and build
- Letting yourself be known
- When it starts to look like a relationship
- Dating with a big life, and keeping it
The real goal
Not more dates. Better ones.
Coaching is not about becoming someone else. It is about showing up as the person you already are, with clarity, confidence and a plan — so the right person can actually find you.
Why trust Anya with this
Credentials that matter
Neuroscience-based coach
Certified in performance neuroscience coaching through the Flow Research Collective, founded by Steven Kotler.
Law, finance, MBA
25+ years in senior executive and advisory roles, leading major transactions for some of Australia's largest organisations.
Author and creator
Date 96, the Intentional Dating Blueprint and the Date 96 podcast.
Lived result
Met her husband on Date 96. Married several happy years since.
From people who have worked with Anya
What they say
“As someone who has never found the one and keeps searching, Anya's coaching has been invaluable. There have been many maybes, but her framework, guidance and coaching has always helped me find what is right for me.”
“Anya is insightful and focused on her clients. She works hard to support her clients to get outcomes.”
Founding clients
Be among the first to work through the Blueprint
Programs are opening in small cohorts, and I would love the first group to be people who are ready to take this seriously. If you are curious about what it looks like to work the four stages with me directly, book a short, no-pressure call. We will talk about where you are, what you want, and whether one of the first spots fits.
Ways to work together
Choose your pace
Programs are opening soon. Enquire to join the waitlist and be first to hear when dates are released.
Live workshop • A$149
The Dating Reset
The place to start. A live two hour workshop where you design your own ninety day dating experiment, so you leave with a plan rather than good intentions.
- Two hour live workshop
- Your own ninety day experiment, designed on the day
- The Dating Brief and Opportunity Map templates
- Replay if you cannot make it live
Single session • A$795
The Blueprint Intensive
A focused ninety minute deep dive. We map where you are, name what is actually in the way, and leave you with a written plan for the next ninety days.
- Ninety minute one to one session
- Your dating brief, written together
- A ninety day action plan
- Session notes and exercises
Twelve weeks • A$4,995
Private Coaching
The full Intentional Dating Blueprint, one to one. We move through all four stages while you are actually out there dating, with support between sessions.
- Six fortnightly one to one sessions
- Message support between sessions
- Date debriefs and course correction
- All worksheets and scripts
Eight weeks • A$997 founding price
The Dating Experiment
The eight week small group program, starting 1 November 2026. A founding cohort of twenty women, taught live, with the momentum and honesty that only comes from doing this alongside other people. Founding price A$997 — A$1,995 from Cohort Two onwards.
- Eight weekly live group calls
- Founding cohort of twenty, starting 1 November 2026
- Private group chat
- Weekly practice challenges
- Guest Q&A sessions
Fastest way in
Book a free intro call
Twenty minutes, no pressure. We talk about where you are, what you want, and whether working together makes sense. Pricing is covered on the call.
Questions
Before you enquire
The things people ask before they book, answered honestly.
Who this is for
People who are excellent at work and still beginners in love. Who are not broken, or desperate, or tragic, and are not remotely uninterested in love either. Who are simply tired of tolerating rather than wanting, and ready to be deliberate about it.
Anya is a coach, not a therapist or psychologist. Coaching is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological or legal advice.